Dating Game is a Crock of Shit
Geplaatst op 28-04-2026
Categorie: Lifestyle
First article dropped on Saturday after a long time of not posting. I was pretty excited about the whole thing because, while I’ve been writing a while, I have been back logging them and I was excited to get posting again. I was really looking forward to what everyone had to say until lo and behold “Elmer” drops in with comment number 2 and goes all “Real Made Men” on my ass:
Elmer says:
This is mystical nonsense. 100%. If a chick is into, she’s into you, if not then no. Check to see who’s into you, and if you dig her then take her. End of story. Never mind this “technique” silliness.
I hate people like Elmer. Not in a personal way, I’m sure he’s a great guy and I’d love to have a drink with him but its his views of game. The whole “Assanova” approach where there is no real game, and no one actually has any ‘skill’, there is no technique that would ever make you more or less attractive to a woman – its all hogwash and everything we teach is just us trying to explain our natural luck with women.
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I hate the view that Elmer and people like him hold. There are several reasons I don’t like it:
- Its unamerican – I know that doesn’t mean anything to my foreign audience, but I’m an American and something foundational to our way of life is that anyone has a chance to change his class or caste. To say that you can’t have skill with women, its all luck and looks, is to say that if you’re dad was a mealy mouthed faggot, and you’re ugly you’ll never have luck with women (sorry). Its offensive to me on a deep level.
- Its demonstrably false – My dad is a mealy mouthed pussy (despite what a badass my grandpa was) and I’m not the most attractive guy in the bunch and I’ve learned how to be successful with women.
- The way you act is important – Since I’ve changed how I carried myself I get more looks from women. The more confidently I banter, the more flirtatious they get and the more IOIs they give off.
Elmer was specifically saying that Push/Pull doesn’t work because how could it? Allow me to elaborate on how and why push/pull – as well as other game techniques – work:
Push/Pull frames you, the man, as leading the interaction. You decide when the kiss is happening, you decide when the sex is happening, you are in control. Women are conditioned to see a man who is in control. Be keeping up with push/pull in the beginning you are further framing the rest of the interaction and relationship.
I remember laying in a hotel bed with one of my conquests. She was wearing nothing but panties and I was stark naked. She was grinding on me and told me that “We’re having fun, but I’m not putting out tonight. I’m not that kind of girl.” – Yeah, right: You’re 90% naked and grinding on my cock, but you’re ‘not that kind of girl.’ Whatever.
So I told her, “When I’m tired of this, we’re fucking.”
Because I had been setting the pace of the interaction all night, she knew to expect – despite whatever she said – that I would continue to set the pace of the interaction up to and including sex. When I got bored and wanted to stick my dick in it, I made her get off, I threw her to the bed, ripped off her panties and proceeded torail the shit out of her in every position imaginable. I was slamming it so hard I hit bottom several times. I even did that thing where you accidentally come all the way out and on your next slam you end up just jabbing your dick into her asscheek and hurts really bad (hate that).
The point is, she didn’t protest to the all night fuck-a-thon – she did the opposite and begged for more. Why? Because I was leading the interaction.
The next morning as we were enjoying a lovely hotel breakfast she told me that she didn’t know what came over her, guys never get it from her on the first date, but that she was glad it happened.
Hamsterbation at its finest.
All of the talk of ‘this isn’t me, I don’t usually have sex’ was chic bravado. It was hamsterbation. That little mind of hers was working to rationalize away why, exactly, she was going to fuck me. She knew she was going to fuck me because I had been leading the interaction and I had made it plainly clear to her earlier that night that we were going to have sex (I did this by saying to her, during dinner I believe, “You know we’re fucking tonight, right?”).
Push/Pull frames the interaction to always put you as the leader, as the male, and as the one in control. It teases her by ending an interaction before she wnats it to. This creates anticipation and ‘fans the flames’ – makes her want to get all she can in the next go.
Ever bob for apples?
The longer you bob for apples, the harder it is to hold your breath. The reason is because you grow tired, your lungs get strained. You hold your breath for thirty seconds the first time, but you can’t seem to find any apples. Its okay, because you can go again after you get some air. Problem is, when you exhale, and then inhale again you aren’t clearing your lungs out of all of the carbon dioxide and giving them a chance to rest. They only fill to 95% of their capacity. Then 90%. Then 81% and so on it deteriorates until you are coming up for air, taking a shallow breath, and dunking your head back in the barrel to frantically search for apples. Your search becomes frantic because you have to get an apple but your lungs wont afford you the time.
Her vagina works the same way. She wants more and more, but you keep pulling away so she commits herself to getting more the next go around before you pull back.
Like most every game technique (there are some shit ones I don’t use, I s’pose), push/pull is founded in human interaction, biology, and a heavy bit of psychology. Its effective because it has been designed, practiced, refined and implemented enough times to make it a nearly universal and adaptive technique.
Many men have used push/pull to great success, and many men will continue to do so.
Whenever someone tells you game is a crock of shit, just say to them, “so is basketball.” and go about your business knowing that what you’re doing is helping you get more snatch.